The Library of Spanking Fiction: Wellred Weekly
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Will She or Won't She? – Popping the Spanking Question Although this article is aimed at M/F spanking, the main idea can be easily applied to other spanking partnerships. Do you want to spice up your long-term relationship with a bit of slap and tickle - with more emphasis on the slap? Or, have you begun a brand-spanking-new relationship, only to discover that there is no spanking taking place at all? You find yourself faced with that awkward question of, 'How can I pop the spanking question to my partner, without her scurrying for the hills?' Men who feel more comfortable with communicating non-verbally could always resort to the 'mosquito technique'- this however, does require some careful preparation to set the scene. Firstly, arrange a romantic evening with your beloved. Make sure you woo her sufficiently to increase your chances of some steamy bedroom action later that evening. When you are both ready to take things further, dim the lights (you could also use candles if you don't have a dimmer switch). Then play some romantic music at a moderate volume. It will become clear later why these two steps are essential to the success of your plan. Whilst your sweetheart is relaxing, excuse yourself for a bathroom break. Using a black marker pen, draw a small smudgy dot on your dominant hand. For added effect and realism you could also merge a small amount of red ink alongside the black. Make sure you hide the pens and avoid letting your partner see your palm. So, now you can see why the subdued lighting is essential, and all the while, your partner will be thinking you are adorably romantic!... Well, you are!... Right? So now the stage is set. All you need to do is engage in some passionate lovemaking, preferably in the doggy-style position as this will give you a delicious view of her jiggling bottom and provide you with easy access when the time is right! Once in the throes of passion, when you hear her voice catching with impending orgasmic release, give her bum-cheek a good firm slap. If she moans appreciatively, or even better, says, "Oooh yesss, harder, harder," then you know you are on to a winner. However, if your darling abruptly turns her head and shoots you an angry glare, simply hold up your hand, smile sweetly and say, "Mosquito." This should hopefully leave her thinking that you had her best interest at heart. Well you did? Right? Whatever the outcome, remember to remove that tell-tale dot from the palm of your hand. Failing to do so could result in her discovering your wickedly naughty scheme! You would then be faced with a whole lot of red-cheeked explaining to do. Or, you could even find yourself blushing at the other end of your anatomy when you wind up on the receiving end of a spanking! (This, of course may be great if you are a switch!) Okay, the above method has its inherent risks! So, you are probably now thinking, 'What are the other options?' Well, as the old saying goes, honesty always pays in the end. But here is where I am going to disprove this theory when it applies to declaring your spanking fetish to a new girlfriend, or to your wife who has, so far, remained blissfully unaware of your spanko kink. Bear in mind that your partner is most likely a vanilla and has absolutely no idea how wonderful an artfully given spanking can feel. The poor unfortunate unspanked woman really has no clue what she is missing out on! Anyway, it stands to reason that if you blurt out your desire to spank her salaciously tempting derriere with a question such as, "Excuse me, may I spank you?" her initial reaction may be one of shock, revulsion, or worse still, outright ridicule. So, my friends, I strongly recommend taking a far more subtle approach. As you learn more about your lover you come to realise which parts of her body are her erogenous zones. Thus, if your better-half already enjoys having her buttocks fondled whilst snuggling or lovemaking, she will most likely be receptive to gentle love-taps, especially if these are mixed with sensual circular rubs. The most conducive time to introduce your darling to your kink is, of course, during loving intimacy. This provides an opportune moment to assess whether or not she sees her bottom as her sexual hot zone. Yes, I know you see it that way! But for you to achieve success in your mission to spank her, she needs to be made aware just how erotically stimulating her bottom can be for her too. You want to ensure that she will enjoy whatever attention you pay to her nether cheeks, and eventually grow to love it. This is your aim. Remember too, that if she is liking it there will be obvious evidence in her level of arousal! If her response to your ministrations is positive, you can then attempt to gradually increase either the pace or the force of your spanks. Never both at once. At this point in time your focus should be giving her pleasure, not pain. Therefore, always pay close attention to her reactions. You want to avoid startling her with an unexpected heavy whack, or a sudden deluge of stinging slaps, as this would most likely distract her from the sensuality of the moment and deter her from future hanky-spanky. Assuming that your partner purred contentedly, or at least didn't complain bitterly, you are ready to progress to the next stage. Cuddling is an essential part of sucking up to your sweetheart in your endeavor. So, as you lay blissfully entwined in each other's arms ask her directly if she liked your new moves. As a lead up to asking this very important question you may want to rub and/or gently squeeze her bottom to once again emphasise this area as an erogenous zone. If she then answers, 'yes' the door is open for you to discuss other kinds of erotic spankings or spanking role-play with her which can be enjoyed before, during or even after sex. At this point in time I wouldn't suggest to her the idea of punishment, or play-punishment spankings. Unless she gives you clear indication that this would appeal to her, I would save this discussion for a later date. So, my friends, honesty does pay in the end but make sure you pave the way to your honest discussion by giving your lover the opportunity to experience some sneaky spanks beforehand. The sensation of sexy light spanking interspersed with other erotic touches during your intimate moments together will enable her to discover what she has been missing. If you pay close attention to your partner's reactions, and tailor your ministrations accordingly, you may find that she easily warms to the idea of being spanked rather than recoiling in horror when you finally discuss the subject of your kink openly. 12 comments:
Seegee said...
You're doing a good community service here, Eileena. 10 December 2011 03:26
canadianspankee said...
I am still laughing at the first part of the article. Painting the dot on one's hand was a great idea, unless of course like you state, one has to explain it. Of course the danger here of ones who only want to give and not recieve is that one's new love might also want to give only and your butt could be in serious trouble. Great for switches like me as you say, but in case of some, things will not be like they dream of. There is a chance a long time spanker might turn into a great spankee but it is a learning curve. Well done and some good suggestions, thanks for making me laugh. 10 December 2011 19:14
islandcarol said...
Very sensible advice; logical , thoughtful, pretty safe, since you counsel taking things slowly. I'm not sure about the mosquito ruse; sounds a bit corny. Loved your article. 11 December 2011 04:27
opb said...
Again, sensible and logical, but it did sound to me like how to convert a closet spanko or an unknowing spanko. The woman for whom the bottom is just something to sit on won't be enamoured of getting it smacked as this will, as you suggest, be associated with punishment not pleasure. sad but some folk just don't like it, and sadly no amount of attempting to convince them that their bum is a delight unto your eyes will make any difference. 11 December 2011 14:49
Miss_Naughty said...
I was a tad concerned to read about the mosquito technique, I had visions of it taking place in the garden one balmy summer evening for all the neighbours to hear. Very funny I loved it. 11 December 2011 22:59
Janine said...
LOL Great article, Eileena! If only we knew your real identity.... that aside, I suspect you are a very astute observer of human behavior and psychology to provide such sensible advice to those faced with vanilla partners. I am particularly impressed by the "mosquito technique" and will be sure to pass along that inspired strategy to all the spankos I know (which is, unfortunately, quite a small amount). Thank you for sharing your extensive knowledge of spanking relationships! 12 December 2011 14:51
TheEnglishMaster said...
Dear Aunt Eileena - thank you for your thoughtful advice, but I must warn your readers to be careful. On a recent date with a nice girl from the office, I tried your mosquito technique, but unfortunately it seems she saw another one on the side of my face almost instantly! My head was ringing for hours. We didn't date again, and now I get dirty looks from all the office girls. Great article, J ___ oops sorry .... Ms Cross. You don't sound cross at all - you sound ... well ...kinda naughty actually. Keep it up! 13 December 2011 21:19
mati said...
And I wondered all the time who Eileena Cross could be. Thank you for giving so many good advice to kinky men on look-out. Hopefully they make good use of it. 3 June 2012 18:21
njrick said...
Two approaches here. The second one more likely to succeed, The first one, however, is funnier. 26 June 2012 13:02
gail said...
The mosquitoes up here in Canada are HUGE ! Dealing with them needs quite some energy injected into the swat. No wonder Canadians are such spankaholics. Well written and much appreciated, Auntie Eileena ! 7 July 2012 21:18
dund93 said...
Good advice Ms cross. Ever thought of being an agony aunt? It would be quite obvious where the agony would be. 7 July 2012 21:39
coral63 said...
Humorous and informative..What a scheme May all the spankos find those loving, willing partners they are seeking. 10 July 2012 17:09
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